Whenever I am visiting blogs, I would go through the list of comments for their posted articles.
I was appalled when I found out that a large percentage of people who own blogs do not respond to people’s comments.
Those who blog on WordPress are more likely to respond to comments on their blog that was made by other people who visited their blog (By the way, there are those on WordPress who don’t reply to any of the comments made on their blog).
I have also noticed that many bloggers on Blogger are guilty when it comes to not responding to comments made on their blog.
As a matter of fact, there are people on many websites who don’t even have the kind courtesy to respond to the comments made by their viewers.
The truth is: if you are a website administrator or an owner of a blog, you would not be able to respond to 100% of the comments right away. But, I expect them to start responding to those comments whenever they log back on.
Here is an analogy: If you met someone in person and you told them, “Hey, that is a great-looking shirt,” you would expect them to respond.
They in turn might reply, “Thank you,” or say, “Oh, this old-looking thing? I made a scramble through the wardrobe hoping that these rags look good on me. I guess that I did a great job.”
Now, if the person stared you in the face and didn’t utter a word, or they totally ignored you by pretending that you weren’t even in the room with them, you would consider their behaviour to be very rude.
Although the interaction is done via the worldwide web, one is still interacting with people; this is what most people fail to realize. I advise that they respond to people’s comments in the same manner as they would respond to statements made by others who are in their presence.
I might be perceived as being harsh by some people for saying, “Don’t even think about starting a blog or a website if you are poor at human relations, because it all boils down to dealing with human beings.”
Therefore, it is of great importance to respond to the comments made on your blog or website.
True. I always try, but sometimes I miss a few.. And respond Weeks later.actual I feel like I have a few unanswered right now. My point is missing a few happens. But your point is to try. And I agree. Its part of being a blogger. And it ain’t that bad!
[ Smiles ] Thank you for your input, my friend.
I always say blogging is an ongoing conversation so it is important to reply to comments. I am unlikely to follow or contribute to blogs that won’t reply to my comments. Replying to comments builds loyalty.
[ Smiles ] Alex, I agree with everything you have just said.
Your input is highly appreciated!
I’m mixed on this one Renard…What you are talking about involves expectations and expectations are never a good thing, much the same way as assumptions. By having them we don’t allow the other person to be free to be themselves. If we don’t expect something or someone to be a certain way we allow the flow to keep moving freely….. VK
[ Smiles ] It is more a matter of professionalism and common courtesy.
Thank your for sharing your perspective.
I agree with you completely. I try to reply to every comment even those that aren’t kind. I even give the not so kind folks a kind word back; I hope that in doing so I let them know that I am not hurt by their rudeness and only want them to be at peace with themselves.
[ Smiles ] Nicely said!
Well here is the deal. If you want to be read and appreciated you had better respond or I am not going to read or comment on your blog. I will go one step further, if you then do not visit and comment on my blog, I am going to ignore your blog. Childish, yes but that is the way it is. I have helped a couple of bloggers increase there readership by advising them to network, that means read, Like, comment and interact with other bloggers and not only that…you just might learn something and make new friends.
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[ Smiles ] Thank you for sharing your point of view, my friend.
PS: Although I love the new look of your blog, the white letters on black are difficult for my older eyes to read. Just saying.
[ Smiles ] Oh, it looks as though I would have to do something about that; the last thing I want to do is, do injustice to those with “older eyes.”
I always appreciate the feedback from my fellow-bloggers.
Thanks again, Sindy!
No problem, I can manage but not easily.
[ Soft Laughter ] I have already made the necessary changes; please let me know if it works for you.
Thank you for posting this. As a newer blogger I am still getting a handle on things, and responses to comments has been something I have been thinking about…what’s appropriate. I have a much clearer picture in my mind. Everything you stated put it in perfect perspective.
[ Smiles ] That is good to know.
Thanks for your input, Dave.
I’ve been one of those lately…
Since mom had her stroke and brain surgery I’ve just posted comments so people sent me cuz I didn’t want them to think I wasn’t ignoring them and their thoughtfulness. I just haven’t had the time to get online and respond to all the comments. the only reason I have time today is that I’m home sick and my cousin drove down 2 hours to take care of mom for a while. I do agree though that as a general rule, it’s nice to know the person does respond to the comments individually if possible. I must admit, I agree with bluebutterflies in that if someone doesn’t read or especially comment on my blog, I will probably not go to theirs and make the effort to read and comment because their commenting reminds me to check out their page…
[ Smiles ] Thank you for sharing your perspective!